Help I Sexted My Boss: William Hanson and Jordan North on their unlikely friendship
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William Hanson and Jordan North are, by their own admission, unlikely best friends.
Hanson is an etiquette expert, who grew up thinking it was ātotally normalā that his parents had a spare car for their dog. Jordan is a Burnley lad, whose mother used to bathe him in the kitchen sink.
But the pair hit it off when they met in 2010, and subsequently launched a comedy podcast, Help I Sexted My Boss, assisting listeners with modern day dilemmas.
That podcast is now coming to the big screen.
Hanson and Northās live show at the London Palladium on Tuesday night will be broadcast into 400 cinemas across the UK, Ireland and European cities. Itās thought to be the first time a British podcast has done this.
When we meet at a recording studio in central London, they are midway through rehearsals for their tour.
āIām super nervous,ā North said about the tour. āI get terrible stage fright before.ā
That might seem surprising, given North is a seasoned radio presenter. But Hanson explains that in a radio studio, you canāt see your listeners, whereas during a live show, they are right in front of you. North nods in agreement.
The tour sold out in just three hours. The aim of taking it into cinemas is to ensure fans ā better known as G&Divas ā can āstill be a part of it,ā North said.
The show hasnāt been lapped up at all cinemas. North feels particularly vexed that itās not selling well in Accrington, as itās just down the road from where he is from.
But overall, itās been well received in places as far apart as Burnley (āno surprise,ā says Hanson) and Exeter.
The pair first met at BBC Radio 5 Liveās studio in Manchester. North was doing work experience, and Hanson had come into the studio for an interview.
They met again a few months later at a party.
North said his housemate warned him he wouldnāt like Hanson āas heās a bit poshā. The housemate also gave Hanson a similar warning, telling him North was āa bit rough around the edgesā.
But they found common ground, helped ā they say ā by a shared sense of humour.
In 2018, they launched their podcast. Both say theyāve never themselves sexted their bosses, despite the title of the podcast. āIāve always been freelance, I would have had to sext myself,ā Hanson said.
But the idea behind it was to encourage listeners to share their problems, which the duo then try and offer solutions to.
They get dilemmas such as what to do if youāve inadvertently shared sex toys with family members, but also general questions of etiquette such as whether itās acceptable to delete your ex from social media.
Today, the podcast has more than three million downloads a month.
Taking it into cinemas is an āinterestingā step, says Joseph Evans, an analyst at media research firm Enders Analysis.
āPodcasts continue to grow, in terms of popularity, and now weāre seeing these new innovations ā first you had the live streams, and now theyāre coming to cinemas too,ā he told BBC News.
Evans said you can see why a cinema format could work. āPodcasters are very community oriented as a medium. So with cinemas, you get the communal experience, youāre together with fans at the same time.ā
But he added: āFor many, the appeal of a live event is being in the same room as the podcasters, so we shall see if this new format works.ā
Hanson and North think that having two hosts from very different backgrounds has helped them bring in a wider audience.
āA lot of podcasts, itās mainly people that are middle class who listen to them, that live in metropolitan cities like London and Manchester,ā North said. āWhat Iām proud of with Sexted is that itās a lot of working class people listening to it as well.ā
Hanson adds: āThe two sides are laughing in a respectful way at the other.ā
Both Hanson and North are also the first to laugh at their own experiences.
Hanson shares an anecdote about how, when he was younger, his parents bought a car for their dog, Dido.
His parents already had several cars, but wanted a separate one for Dido to travel in, to avoid the other cars getting messy, he explained.
āGrowing up I thought that was totally normal, and that was what everyone does, and now I realise itās completely ridiculous.ā
āAnd I thought it was totally normal to be bathed in the kitchen sink,ā said North.
āIād come in, and [my mum] would be getting my brothers ready for bed in the kitchen sink,ā he said.
āWhich, when you look back nowā¦ā he trails off, with a laugh.
āGen Z are into etiquetteā
North recently left BBC Radio 1 to become the host of Capital Radioās breakfast show. āI canāt tell you how much Iām enjoying it,ā he said. When the offer came to move, āit was too good to turn down,ā he added.
Hanson, meanwhile, runs The English Manner, an etiquette training institute. In recent years, he has become a viral sensation on TikTok where he shares his etiquette tips and advice with a Gen-Z audience.
His persona is exactly the same in real life. When he accidentally spills some water on me, he apologises profusely. āOh dear, I seem to have watered your hand.ā
He says etiquette used to be seen as ārules to belittle someoneā. Whereas his approach is ājust about being nice to someone and having self respect. And I think Gen Z are actually more into that, and are more socially liberal and relaxed than previous generationsā.
The pair say working together hasnāt taken a toll on their friendship. They have also learnt a lot from each other.
āI make no secret I have learnt so much from William,ā said North. āIt might be when I meet new people, how to shake their hand properly, eye contactās really important, how to remember peopleās names as Iām always really terrible at them.ā
Meanwhile Hanson, for his part, credits Jordan with making him more easy-going, including towards the more salacious elements of their podcast.
āIām so much less uptight,ā he said, before laughing. āI suppose that gives you a rough idea of how uptight I was in the first place.ā
Help I Sexted My Boss Live will be in cinemas across the UK & Ireland, plus select European cities, on Tuesday.
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