Blake Lively: My domestic abuse film is tragic and inspiring
For many young woman, there have been very few film adaptations as hotly anticipated as Colleen Hooverâs It Ends With Us.
The 2016 book became an internet sensation a few years ago â it took TikTokâs #booktok by storm with more than one billion tags and sold 20 million copies weeks as the number one New York Times bestseller.
While on the surface the film appears to be a standard romantic comedy, it comes with a dark twist.
Starring Gossip Girl star Blake Lively, it tells the story of Lily Bloom, a young woman who grew up witnessing domestic abuse and winds up in the same position years later.
Lily, a florist in Boston, navigates a complicated love triangle between her charming but abusive boyfriend Ryle Kincaid â played by Jane the Virginâs Justin Baldoni â and her compassionate first love, Atlas Corrigan, acted by Brandon Sklenar.
Speaking to the BBC at the premiere, Lively says she felt the âresponsibility of servicing the people that care so much about the source materialâ.
âI really feel like we delivered a story thatâs emotional and itâs fun, but also funny, painful, scary, tragic and itâs inspiring and thatâs what life is, itâs every single colour,â says the 36-year-old actress who is married to fellow actor Ryan Reynolds.
But the film has been met with some criticism that it romanticises domestic abuse.
A two-star review from The Telegraph called it a âqueasy dramaâ that ârepackages domestic violence as slick romanceâ.
Tim Robey added that the film âsplices abuse and glossy courtship in the big city to deeply dubious effectsâ.
Hoover has explained that her inspiration for the novel was the domestic abuse that her mother endured.
Rebecca Goshawk, who works for Solace, a charity that supports victims of gender-based violence, says she is worried about how the film may have covered domestic abuse.
âFilm can be a really powerful way for young people to see examples of domestic abuse and educate them about healthy relationships,â she explains.
âBut when itâs done poorly itâs really worrying as it could romanticise unhealthy relationships and young people donât have the knowledge to see what is dangerous behaviour.â
Lively, who is also credited as a producer, tells the BBC that she is adamant the film has been made sensitively and âwith lots of empathyâ.
âLily is a survivor and a victim and while they are huge labels, these are not her identity. She defines herself and I think itâs deeply empowering that no one else can define you.â
Fans at the premiere also say that they donât think the book or film romanticise unhealthy relationships.
Taylor Lopez, 19, says that showing the story from the perspective of a victim who grapples with the difficult decision of loving someone but also needing to leave them is done really well.
Her friends Phoebe and Celina agree, adding that the film âperfectly comes togetherâ and âthe feelings and experiences of the characters are so relatableâ.
They all also think that Lively, who rose to fame in the 2000s playing Serena van der Woodsen in Gossip Girl, is the perfect casting.
âIn the book Lily is a 23-year-old and so people have complained about her casting but actually sheâs the perfect choice,â Celina explains.
âPretty Woman meets 50 Shades of Greyâ
However, the critics have not been so favourable, awarding the film a mix of two and three stars.
The Independent said the film was âsincere but completely ludicrousâ in a two-star review and added that Livelyâs character âdoes not register as a real person, so, itâs odd, and a little uncomfortable, to see her burdened with such raw traumaâ.
The Guardian acknowledged that there were âexpected clichĂ©s, but there are also many that are mercifully avoided too, the story not always conforming to typeâ.
A four-star review from The Times was one of the most favourable and described the film as âPretty Woman meets 50 Shades of Greyâ and a âdizzy, guilty pleasureâ.
âLively is perfectly cast and has that combination of self-consciousness, determination and doubt that is wholly fitting for a character yearning to break free from the coercive clutches of those around her,â Kevin Maher wrote.
Adaptations of popular books, particularly those read by younger women such as Twilight and The Hunger Games, have become blockbuster hits.
Hoover and Livelyâs loyal and impressively large fan bases may help It Ends With Us on to that list, despite the lukewarm response by the critics.