Bright named ambassador of mental health charity
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England international Millie Bright has been named an ambassador for childrenâs mental health charity YoungMinds.
The 31-year-old has spoken out previously on mental health struggles and describes this new role as âthe most moving thingâ she will do in her career.
Having supported her mother through depression and anxiety, Bright hopes to use her own experiences to help young people.
âHonestly, itâs scary how many people come forward and say they are struggling,â the Chelsea captain told BBC Sport.
âI donât feel like you should ever feel alone in a world with billions of people. Iâve always said Iâm the glue in my family and always try to keep everything together.
âMy mum has struggled badly with depression and anxiety. Iâve seen her go through that journey and to now be on the other side of it is so nice to see.
âItâs a horrible journey to go through â not only for themselves but the people surrounding them. Itâs like day and night. Mental health can really affect someone and change who they are.â
Bright will help YoungMinds by going to schools and events to promote positivity and provide safe circles for young people who are struggling.
She added: âItâs really hard to know how to help. How do you support someone going through that journey? Iâve always found when Iâm struggling, the worst thing someone can say to me is, âare you OK?â
âI now say, âis there anything I can do for you?â Itâs about trying to get people back into that happy place and being comfortable.
âFor me and my mum, itâs the farm. I grew up on the farm and itâs my sanctuary. Being up there is where nothing else matters to my mum and nothing affects her.
âSheâs happy there. Itâs nice to see her come out of the other side but I know some people donât. They probably feel alone and like they have nobody to talk to.
âThat really struck me about YoungMinds. They help the families as well as the person struggling which I think is key.â
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Published14 May
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âSafe circlesâ, journals and social media
Chelsea defender Bright has learned how to manage her mental health but it has not always been easy.
In May, she told BBC Sport she had question marks over her career after a lengthy injury forced her to miss most of the season.
During the Covid pandemic, Bright and best friend Rachel Daly â a former England international â set up a social media account called âYour Daly Dose of Brightnessâ, which they used as a platform to support others.
âIf someone was having a rubbish day they could turn to us. Some messages were very private but others were just to say thank you,â said Bright.
Her advice to young people is to use the services provided by YoungMinds and to âreach outâ when they need support.
Bright also has tips of her own to pass on, including surrounding herself with a âsafe circleâ of close friends and family.
They include fiance Levi, Chelsea team-mates Sam Kerr, Guro Reiten and Erin Cuthbert as well as former England stars Daly and Carly Telford are among her âsafe peopleâ.
âI also write journals which has been a life-saver, particularly in football where there are a million opinions,â added Bright. âYou can be the best player one day, the worst the next.
âThere are good and bad things in it. I write down the positive things so I can read over it. I just try to remember all the good things of that journey.â
Bright also comes off social media because she says it can be âa toxic placeâ when you are âtrying to healâ.
However, Bright believes social media can also be a good place to find support and to âuplift each other and not bring each other downâ.
âSocial media has allowed me to connect with people who are struggling too,â she said.
âIt brings people together. It can be a better place. We just need to remind people of that and of all the positive things.â
âEveryone struggles at some pointâ
Bright believes she has a âresponsibilityâ to use her platform to help others.
âEven if I can just make a difference to one personâs mental health, I would be over the moon,â she said.
âEveryone has a choice on what they want to do with [their platform] but in a world where itâs not as good as it could be, why would you not choose to make it a better place?â
Bright has already seen the impact of what she can do by using her platform to address mental health.
âFootball puts you in the limelight so itâs just showing that itâs OK to speak out. I think thatâs what most people appreciate,â she said.
âOur lifestyles can be perceived as big, fancy and that everything is sunshine and roses. It really isnât. Weâre all humans â no matter your background, how much money you have or what your job is.
âEveryone struggles at some point. When you donât take care of those things, the effect can be massive.
âIâve witnessed that and Iâve been more open at talking about that. Itâs about showing weâre raw. Thatâs something Iâve always believed in.â