Belongings of care children put in bin bags and lost
When Elliott was taken into care at 12 years old, he was told to pack all his belongings into black bin bags.
A pendant given to him by his nan â who he did not know when he would see again â was lost on the way.
He is not the only child in care that this has happened to. BBC Wales has spoken to children in care, and young care-leavers, who say they were made to move their belongings in bin bags and saw them go missing as a result.
Elliott â now 15 â said moving his things in this way caused additional trauma to his experience of coming into the care system.
âThe pendant that I lost when I went to my first placement, it meant a lot to me because my nan didnât know when she would see me again when I moved into care,â he said.
âIt was supposed to be my 18th birthday present, so my grandmother spent a lot of money on it, and it had a lot of sentimental value.â
Comfort items such as teddies and blankets also went missing when Elliott was moving between placements.
He said: âHaving those pieces from home, it means a lot to us. It can mean the difference between breaking down the placement and keeping it up.â
During another move, a bin bag containing Elliottâs belongings broke.
âI grabbed my bag out of my social workerâs car and the bottom of it just ripped and all my clothes just fell out in the middle of the road,â he said.
âItâs dehumanising. If your child was moving out, you wouldnât make them move in black bin bags, you would take the time out of your day to get duffle bags or suitcases and boxes as well.â
Jo-Anne, now 22, said that every time she moved placement as a child, she did so with black bin bags.
But there was one move she has never forgotten.
Jo-Anneâs belongings were placed in a bin bag, which went missing.
âThere were photos of my older and younger sibling, we were separated practically as soon as we were put into care,â she said.
Those pictures were the only thing Jo-Anne had left to remember them by.
Her baby blanket was also lost during the move.
She added: âThatâs something from home, thatâs something that meant something to me, but they couldnât look after it enough for me to keep it.â
When she asked what had happened to the bag, no one seemed to know.
âThe local authority didnât have them, the foster placements didnât have them, and I kept questioning where were they and I never got to bottom of it,â she said.
âMy best guess is that theyâve been used as rubbish, theyâve ended up in the bins because they were black bags and Iâve left them outside the house.
âBin men are going to think its rubbish, letâs collect it.â
It left Jo-Anne feeling like she did not deserve her belongings.
âIt made me feel very worthless,â she said.
âIt made me feel like I wasnât entitled to a normal suitcase to keep my things safe. I felt like I wasnât entitled to normal belongings and that maybe there was no point in moving my things.â
Care leaver Angel said that when she was 19, she was unexpectedly asked to leave the hostel she was staying in.
Her belongings were packed in bin bags and handed to her at the front door.
When she unpacked them, she found clothes, personal photos and other items were missing.
âThis made me feel worthless and lost,â she said.
âI have just had to continue on without half of my belongings and try and build afresh.â
The National Youth Advocacy Service (NYAS) is now running a campaign, called My Things Matter, asking local authorities to pledge never to ask a young person to move their belongings in a bin bag or throw away a young personâs belongings without their consent.
They have also asked local authorities to work with children in care to ensure they feel supported while moving.
It is not the first time campaigners have raised it, but they say practices like this are still common.
The campaign has also teamed up with social enterprise Madlug, set up by a youth worker in 2015, which donates a travel bag to a child in care for every bag it sells.
It is now donating bulk orders of free bags to local authorities that have signed a pledge.
Nine of the 22 local authorities in Wales have committed to the campaign pledge since it launched in 2022.
Jay Jeynes is the Welsh chairman of the Campaign Advisory Group at NYAS.
He is care-experienced himself and was also made to move his belongings in a black bin bag.
He is urging the remaining 13 Welsh local authorities to commit to the pledge.
âIt is staggering how many people are still using black bin bags,â he said.
Mr Jeynes said the campaign is about empowering every child in care to be able to move their belongings with dignity.
He added: âNo child deserves to carry their lives in a bin bag.â
A Welsh Government spokesperson said the belongings of children in care should be âtreated with the utmost respectâ.
They said: âA number of local authorities in Wales already pre-purchase holdall bags for the belongings of children and young people during periods of transition.
âWhilst we understand that there been occasions when these have not been used â primarily during emergencies â we fully expect all local authorities to better plan and use holdalls on all occasions.â
The Welsh Local Government Association, which represents local authorities in Wales, was asked to comment but declined.