Parentsâ tributes to beach death victims at inquest
The parents of two children who drowned off Bournemouth Beach have paid tribute to them at an inquest into their deaths.
Joe Abbess, 17, from Southampton, and 12-year-old Sunnah Khan, from High Wycombe, Buckinghamshire, both died after getting into trouble in the water in May 2023.
Joeâs mother, Vanessa, told Dorset Coronerâs Court her son âhad a great life ahead of himâ, while Sunnahâs mother, Stephanie Williams, described her as a âforce of natureâ.
A previous hearing was told a rip current tide had led to the deaths of the two youngsters, with eight other people needing treatment by paramedics on the day.
âSnatched awayâ
Mrs Abbess also read a statement on behalf of herself and husband, Peter, paying tribute to Joe who had been a trainee chef for Southampton Football Club.
Her voice breaking with emotion, she said: âJoe was a wonderful son, brother and friend and we are all devastated by his death. He is greatly missed.
âOur family and friends will always love him and we are incredibly proud of the fabulous young man he was.
âJoe was generous, loving, caring, hardworking and funny.
âWe were privileged to have him in our lives for 17 years and we are all so sorry that he will never be able to fulfil his dreams and ambitions.
âJoe had a great life ahead of him and it is so tragic that he was snatched away from it. We all find a future without him in our lives very difficult to comprehend.â
Harriet Short, who represents the family, took over reading the statement on behalf of Mrs Abbess who had become too emotional to continue.
She described how Joe had gone to the beach on 31 May with a large group of friends.
Unknowingly, she had messaged him at 15:45 BST, about the time the incident was unfolding, saying: âHope youâre having fun at the beach. Itâs so warm, donât forget to apply sun cream and drink water.â
The statement continued: âMaybe something had alerted me in the depths of my mind that I felt I needed to message Joe to check in on him.â
One of Joeâs friends later called her, sounding âhystericalâ, saying lifeguards were trying to get Joe out of the water.
Ms Short said another friend later called Mrs Abbess to say âJoe was in the sea when the waves got crazy and that the alarm had been raisedâ.
Mrs Abbess then received calls from the police and in a call at 17:41 an A&E consultant at the hospital where he had been taken told her staff âcouldnât do any more for Joeâ.
âInfectious laughâ
Speaking in court, Ms Williams paid a tearful tribute to her âkind, funny, reliable, smart and incredibly beautiful daughterâ.
She said she was âincredibly popular at schoolâ and âfiercely protective of her familyâ.
âHer smile lit up a room and her laugh was infectious,â Ms Williams continued.
âShe cared about so many people and would do anything for her family and friends.
âShe was a force of nature â to know her was to be truly lucky.
âWe have missed her and will continue to miss her for the rest of our lives.â
The inquest continues.
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