Barry Keoghan: My background is not a pity story

Saltburn star Barry Keoghan has said he doesnât want his background to be a âpity storyâ, saying he hopes it can inspire other children with a similar upbringing.
The actor and his brother spent most of their childhood in foster care after their mother, who struggled with drug addiction, became unable to care for them.
âI speak about it to let younger kids know no matter where you come from, you can always achieve what you put your mind toâ he said.
Keoghan ddressed rumours and criticised internet trolls for making assumptions about his family life on The Louis Theroux Podcast.
Asked about his motherâs heroin addiction, the actor said it âcaught herâ as well as his uncle and father.
âShe was just unable to look after us. My father wasnât there and so we got taken into care.
âThat kind of thing still haunts meâ he said, âyou donât forget waiting on the social worker steps and waiting for a new family to come and play with you.
âYou ask why you?â

Throughout his childhood Keoghan had 14 foster homes between the ages of five and nine, made up from 13 families and his own grandmother, an upbringing that he said has given left him with âtrust issuesâ.
âI never trusted when someone said they love me. Iâd always think, ânah, this isnât realâ.â
Whilst living with his grandmother, Keoghan said he could remember his mother âscreaming through the letterbox⊠just wanting moneyâ.
âThat was one of the last times I heard her, her voice and that stuff haunts meâ.
His mother died when he was aged 12.
âDeadbeat dadâ
Discovering a passion for performing at school, he decided to study acting at The Factory, Bow Street Academy.
He would go on to make his feature film debut in the 2011 Irish film Between the Canals.
Since rising to international fame through his performances in The Banshees of Inisherin and Saltburn, Keoghan has been the subject of online abuse with people mocking his appearance and attacking his relationship with his son.
The incidents became more frequent when his relationship with singer Sabrina Carpenter was put under media scrutiny.
âThereâs a lot (of abuse) onlineâ he said, âIf I didnât have tough skin or the strength to have, I wouldnât be sitting here.
âThe more public Iâve become, the less Iâve posted about my child because I donât think it is fair to put my child online.â
He went on to say âbecause I have reined that in, people draw a narrative and go âabsent father, deadbeat dadâ.
âIâm not an absent fatherâŠpeople love to use my son as ammunition.
âIt sickens me, makes me furious.â
When asked by Theroux how he feels when people attack the actorâs âdistinctâ appearance, Keoghan called it âabsolutely disgustingâ that people would âpick someoneâs appearance apart.
âItâs lucky I have tough skin to be honest,â he said.
While his relationship with Please Please Please singer Carpenter has continued to bring him more attention across social media platforms, Keoghan said he is âincredibly blessedâ.
He called her a âstrong independent lady who is massively talented and very specialâ.

Keoghan, who will be in the upcoming Peaky Blinders film, said he chooses to take his life experiences and use them as therapy by investing them in his acting.
âI try bring real emotion into it,â he said. âI do therapy and I have a good way of managing stuff now.â
Keoghan grew up in Summerhill, an area of Dublin known for struggling economically.
He told Theroux he was âlucky to get outâ but he still has love for the area that it is âfull of gorgeous peopleâ.
âI want to go back and set up some sort of youth club and employ people from the area,â he added.