Family pay tribute to British man killed in Ukraine
A family has paid tribute to their son who has been killed in Ukraine, saying they âbegged him not to goâ but he wanted to help.
Callum Tindal-Draperâs family said they were informed by the 4th International Legion that the 22-year-old from Cornwall had been killed in action while the foreign volunteer platoon defended an observation point on 5 November.
His father Steven Draper said the family were proud of their âbraveâ son, who had told them before going to Ukraine in June he knew the risks he would face and the chances of him coming home were slim.
The BBC has contacted the Foreign Office for further information.
Foreign Office advice has urged people not to travel to Ukraine while the country is in conflict with Russia.
Mr Draper said the family, who live in Gunnislake in Cornwall, had tried to convince his son not to travel out to Ukraine, but they understood it was something he was passionate about doing because he wanted to help.
âWe begged and begged and begged him not to go,â Mr Draper said.
âBut Callum said âdad, Iâm not frightened of bullies and whatâs going on in Ukraine is awful and someone needs to stand up for these peopleâ.â
His mother Caroline Tindal said the family were all âso proudâ of Mr Tindal-Draper, who had previously worked at Derriford Hospital in Plymouth and as a carer in the community.
She went out to visit her son in Ukraine in September and said she noticed he had matured as a person.
âIt was such a transformation and he said to me âmum, coming out here was the best thing that ever happened to me, Iâve found who I was meant to beâ,â Ms Tindal said.
âHe found who he was meant to be, he became that person and he lived it.â
âOverwhelming loveâ
She added Mr Tindal-Draperâs battalion had told the family in video messages and handwritten letters they held him in high-esteem and he was an inspiration to them in Ukraine.
Ms Tindal said: âWhen we found out heâd died, there was just this hole which I canât describe and itâs always going to be there.
âBut to know that they are saying he inspired them and they called him their little brother because he was the youngest one out there, they really were a family unit, and that is helping heal us and helping us get by.
âAlready that hole I thought could not be mended is being filled with overwhelming love from his family out there and it means so much.â
Mr Draper said the hole left by his sonâs death was âcrushingâ, but he was filling it with pride from listening to what his comrades had said to the family.
He added: âItâs inspiring me to go out and think what can I do and how can I be as brave and courageous in the things that I do.
âIâve got the bravest of the brave as a son as an inspiration and thatâs really powerful.â
Ms Tindal said the family have not had Mr Tindal-Draperâs body back yet, but the family have plans to bury him in Ukraine.
She said: âHe wanted to stay in Ukraine and live in Ukraine, so I think even if we had the body we would bury him in Ukraine â thatâs where he found his home.â
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