âBeing stalked was worse than being held at gunpointâ
A woman who was held at gunpoint by her ex-partner has said the ordeal was ânot as awful as being stalkedâ as she criticised the âshockingly lowâ number of protection orders issued.
Rhianon Bragg, from Rhosgadfan near Caernarfon, Gwynedd was held hostage for eight hours with a shotgun in 2019.
Five Stalking Prevention Orders (SPOs) were issued by Welsh police forces in 2023, despite more than 8,000 reports being made, a BBC Wales Live investigation found.
Police said stalking was a priority and they were committed to tackling the crime.
Ms Bragg said she was subjected to controlling and threatening behaviour from her ex-partner Gareth Wyn Jones through most of their five-year relationship.
âI pulled up, got out of the car, and then from just in front of me, Gareth leapt out from the shadows, shotgun up at my chest,â she said.
âI screamed. It was a shock but not a surprise.â
SPOs were introduced in January 2020, just after her ordeal.
âSometimes I think âwould that have made a difference to me?â But actually if here we are nearly five years later and these things still arenât being implemented, theyâre not making a difference to anybody.â
Police say the orders are just one tool in their box of ways to tackle the crime, but Ms Bragg was critical of how they have been used.
âItâs not a useful tool if you donât pick it up and use it. It becomes a waste of space in your tool box.â
Ms Bragg said the five SPOs issued in Wales in 2023 was not enough.
âI think the bottom line is that the orders are not working and something needs to be done about that.
âUntil stalking is recognised as the widespread issue it is, and until as a society we deal with it effectively. Wales is not anywhere as near as safe as it could be,â she added.
SPOs are a civil order which aim to protect victims from further harassment.
Police apply to the magistrates for an order, and if granted â it is a criminal offence to breach its terms.
A Freedom of Information request showed only five SPOs were issued in Wales in 2023, the same as in 2020 and 2021.
Television presenter Ruth Dodsworthâs ex-husband was jailed in 2021 for three years for stalking and coercive and controlling behaviour.
He was also given a restraining order against contacting Ms Dodsworth.
âMake no mistake, the fact heâs been to jail and served his time, doesnât mean Iâve served my sentence,â she said
She said she lived her life âin fearâ during her marriage and âthe consequences are devastatingâ.
âItâs really important to hammer home the affects stalking can have on someone,â she added.
Ms Dodsworth has used her experience to raise awareness and empower others who may be in similar situations.
âBy talking about it, I get messages every single day from people who are going through similar things.â
She said the number of protection orders issued was ânot good enoughâ but positive action about the crime was âheading in the right directionâ.
What action are police taking on stalking?
North Wales Police Chief Constable Amanda Blakeman said it was âabsolutely criticalâ her force took stalking seriously.
It has worked with people like Ms Bragg to inform their training and response.
âIâm incredibly grateful to Rhianon working with the force. Itâs important we donât only look at academic work, but lived experience and learn from that,â she said.
She said the two SPOs issued by the force last year were not enough.
âWork this year has increased the amount of orders weâve looked at this year, and my intention is to fully support victims who would benefit from them.â
The four forces in Wales said they have dedicated staff and officers to identify cases where an order may be appropriate.
This year North Wales Police appointed a stalking co-ordinator and detective sergeant alongside.
Det Sgt Sally White was appointed by North Wales Police in September.
âItâs so important to have a dedicated stalking role because first and foremost stalking can have a really devastating impact on people,â she said.
âItâs fair to say we havenât always got it right previously so thereâs plenty of work to do to address that.â
Det Sgt White said stalking was a complex crime and the signs were not always obvious.
âWeâve introduced training right across the force and a specialist risk assessment to enable all staff to ask really probing questions to identify potential cases.â
She also stressed the importance of multi-agency work by introducing stalking panels to their portfolio of work.
âDifferent agencies have different expertise, so weâll bring together people like, victim support services, probation, health â and look at all tactical options, to not only stop the perpetrator behaviour but how to best tailor support to the victim.â
The Home Office has been approached for comment.
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