âI understand why Coote hid his sexualityâ â Owens
Former international rugby referee Nigel Owens has said he understands why ex-Premier League referee David Coote hid his sexuality over fears of being abused.
âHomophobia remains a problem in all sportâ, he said but added it was serious in football with some people making âhorrendousâ comments online.
Coote, 42, said the pressure of his work contributed to the behaviour that led to his sacking by the Professional Game Match Officials Limited (PGMOL) in December.
He told the Sun: âIâm gay and I have struggled with feeling proud of being âmeâ over a long period of time.
Owens, the first openly-gay man to referee in international rugby, told BBC Radio Wales Breakfast he understands from his own experiences how hiding your sexuality was a âvery dark and difficult place to be.â
He came out in 2007 and retired from refereeing international matches in 2020
Coote, who officiated more than 100 top-flight games, apologised for the behaviour and asked people to understand it involved âprivate moments taken during very low times in my lifeâ.
âI have received deeply unpleasant abuse during my career as a ref and to add my sexuality to that would have been really difficult.â
Owens said the fact that Coote felt he could not come out as gay âshows why we still need to have conversations on creating an environment in all sport where people can feel comfortableâ.
âRugby is probably way ahead here and has shown the way. Football has to catch up.â
âWhen you are struggling with your identity, itâs a very difficult and sometimes very dark place to be in,â Owens said.
âYou will go to the extent of trying to deal with those demons and mental health issues in ways weâve seen David Coote give examples of.â
He said things are much better than in the past, but added there was âstill a lot of work to be doneâ.
âYou go on social media today and look at some of the comments regarding David Coote coming out about his sexuality, itâll still shows there are some horrendous, horrible people out there.
âPeople wonder why we are still talking about this, why people are still needing to live the lie. You just need to look at some of the comments on there which are totally unbelievable.â
He added that most football and rugby fans are âgood peopleâ.
âBut thereâll be a minority in all sport that just are homophobic or wonât like you because of your identity.
âIâve experienced that, but obviously in football the issue is much more serious.â
Owens comments come as police investigate âthreats and abuseâ directed at referee Michael Oliver following Arsenalâs game against Wolves on Saturday.