âWe must stop mollycoddling kidsâ says Saturday detentions head teacher
Head teacher Alun Ebenezer is no stranger to headlines about his hard-line approach to discipline.
Dubbed by one newspaper as the âhead from hellâ, the latest controversy has focused on his decision to introduce detentions on Saturdays.
But as the recently appointed head of 1300-pupil Caldicot School in Monmouthshire, which has been plagued by issues in recent years including teachers striking over violence in classrooms, Mr Ebenezer said he was unapologetic about a focus on âstrict discipline and firm boundariesâ.
He was also critical of what he called a culture of âhiding behind words like âwellbeing'â and âmollycoddlingâ children.
â[We] have a zero-tolerance towards defiance,â said Mr Ebenezer who, within days of taking the reins at the comprehensive school in June 2024, hit the headlines with reports of children being sent home as part of a school uniform clampdown.
âSo people saying âno, not doing itâ or walking away [swearing] â zero tolerance,â he added.

Mr Ebenezer told BBC News that two or three families had taken their children out of the school as they felt that his policies were too strict.
He said most parents had been supportive, but around 20 to 30 had objected to the new behaviour policy he introduced in September.
âPeople confuse strict with nastyâ
The school asks parents to come into lessons and sit next to their child if they misbehave in class.
âI can say to you that weâve never had to ask the same parent in twice â itâs effective,â said Mr Ebenezer.
The school also carries out detentions â meaning pupils being kept in school after-hours as a punishment â either on the same day or on a Saturday.
âWe operate a same-day detention policy, which we think works,â he said.
âApparently in Wales itâs illegal, because we have to give parents 24 hoursâ notice so that they know where their children are.â
Schools are entitled to hold Saturday detentions, except on weekends immediately before and after half-term holidays.
But legislation requires parents to be given at least 24 hoursâ notice in writing of any detention that will take place outside school sessions if the pupil is at a school in Wales, a requirement which was repealed in England in 2011.
âThe reason weâve done [same-day detentions] is because if Iâm badly behaved today, I want to be sorted out today,â said Mr Ebenezer.

Mr Ebenezer was asked to take over at the school after a difficult period which saw teachers striking over âviolent and abusive behaviourâ by pupils.
âMy firm belief is what all young people need is strict discipline and firm boundaries,â said Mr Ebenezer.
Each morning, senior staff greet pupils and check that coats are off, ties are on and skirts are the right length.
âI do think uniformâs important,â Mr Ebenezer said.
âI want [pupils] to give the right impression.â
He has also introduced a âsolid front doorâ policy for wellbeing areas, meaning that pupils must be referred there by staff.
âWe understand that there are some pupils in this school who need proper wellbeing help,â he said.
âBut let those young people get the help they need, not be at the back of the queue from a hundred people who donât want to be in physics.â

A recent report by education inspectors Estyn found behaviour at the school had improved but said it was still in need of âsignificant improvementâ.
It said there was work to do on attendance, safeguarding and developing pupilsâ skills.
One of the senior team, Hayley Moseley, is in her 15th year at Caldicot School and said she had seen âlots of changes, lots of different styles of managementâ.
She said there had been difficulties, but felt the culture in the school was starting to change and that pupils seemed âhappierâ.
Pupil Lilly-Belle, 12, was told off in her first week at the school because she was wearing her sisterâs old skirts which were not the right length.
She said the approach could be âa bit strict sometimesâ but added: âItâs better to be strict than not strict at all.â
Caden, 12, said he had been pulled up for an untucked shirt but said he was comfortable with the rules: âIâm quite happy with them and theyâre good.â

Parent Katherine, who has two sons at the school, said the change in approach was initially a shock.
âIt was a bit military â some people called it draconian,â she said.
âBut sometimes you need that shock to kind of get everybody singing from the same hymn sheet.â
Mr Ebenezer said he wanted to make Caldicot School one of the top 20 in Wales.
âItâs about doing the right thing,â he said.
He said his focus was on âhigh standards of uniform and appearance, punctuality, attendance, behaviour, attitudeâ and said prevailing approaches to behaviour were misguided.
âItâs definitely too soft. I think people confuse strict with nasty,â he said.
âStrict is no nonsense â you do this, this happens. No means no, itâs not nasty.
âI think at the moment we are indulging and we are hiding behind words like wellbeing and safe spaces and itâs making things unsafe and is damaging peopleâs wellbeing.â
Mr Ebenezer said he and his staff needed to be âallowed to do what we need to do and not be inhibited by ridiculous bureaucracyâ.
âWe will be safest, happiest and flourish most when we bring back firm discipline, strict boundaries and we can get on with it,â he added.
A Welsh government spokesperson said: âSchools should be safe spaces for learners and staff and all education settings in Wales have a legal duty to provide a safe learning environment. It is up to schools to set their own detention policies.
âWe are working with partners to develop proposals to improve behaviour, including a National Behaviour Summit which is planned for the spring.â