âMy nephew killed my brother â but Iâve forgiven himâ

The brother of a man stabbed to death by his mentally ill son has said health services and the police failed his family.
Brenton Marriott died in hospital after being stabbed by Rudi Marriott in Cloister Street, Nottingham, on 5 August 2022.
Rudi, who has paranoid schizophrenia, was sentenced to a hospital order last April after being found guilty of manslaughter on the grounds of diminished responsibility, but Delvin Marriott said the family tried to get him help years before the attack.
With the recent announcement of a judge-led public inquiry into the Nottingham attacks â which happened less than a year later â Delvin said he wanted to make sure nobody else goes through the same trauma.
âPersonality changedâ
In his first full interview since Brentonâs death, Delvin said Rudi had a very close relationship with his father, who worked for the Red Cross, after he looked after his mother and was a much-appreciated part of the family.
âRudi was a part of a loving family, and he was an adorable person,â he said.
âEven when my mum lost the use of her legs, Rudi would be there helping us and supporting us.â
He said Rudiâs mental health worsened after he suffered severe head injuries in a street attack about 10 years ago, which led to weeks in hospital.
âHe was badly battered, he had a dog set on him, and at that point Rudiâs personality changed,â he said.
âHe couldnât really talk or function at all [in hospital], but once he started to be able to talk a bit, he was complaining [about] his head, saying his head didnât feel right.
âThen he was complaining he was hearing voices in his head.â

Delvin claimed Rudiâs report of hearing voices âwasnât taken seriouslyâ when he was in hospital, with his condition still difficult after he was back at home.
âHe was definitely a lot more aggravated, a lot more temperamental, very edgy,â he said.
âSometimes he didnât want to speak, [and] just showing signs that things werenât right with him.
âWe just worked on him to try and get him calm â we tried to get him help.â
Brenton and his brother rallied round to try and support Rudi, who also approached mental health services to try and get support.
âHe [Rudi] sat at the hospital waiting to be seen â 13 hours on one occasion, five hours on the next â he was trying himself to get help through the system,â Delvin said.
âHe knew something was wrong, but again nothing came from it.
âHe didnât get any help, he was never seen at the hospital, and we just carried on trying to help him.â

After a period of better health when he was living with his then-partner, Rudiâs condition deteriorated again in 2018, when he started saying he had a microchip in his head and was stabbing the walls at home.
Delvin said the family had been in touch with Nottinghamshire Police over their worries, including after an incident in 2019 when officers attended alongside a mental health nurse, who decided Rudi did not need to be sectioned.
âI thought at that point something was going to be done,â he said.
âIt was explained to them about his circumstances, about how he was not in control of his thoughts and heâs very delusional, and we thought that this was going to be OK, but they thought that Rudi was no harm to himself and no harm to the public.â
Delvin said the response from the authorities left the family feeling âtotally isolatedâ and with ânowhere to goâ as their fears mounted.
Rudiâs mental health problems continued, and in August 2022 he stabbed his father 75 times.
âThat could have been me that was attacked â Rudi didnât know what he was doing,â Delvin said.
âHe was just very delusional, because he believed whatever was going on in his head. No matter what you said to him about reality, it had no effect.
âBy that point the services were saying âwell, heâs an adult, he needs to come in himselfâ, [but] at that point itâs too late, theyâve missed the opportunity.â
âHard to comprehendâ
Delvin said he still felt the pain of the loss of his brother, who he said was âmore or less a superheroâ for the way he looked after Rudi.
Despite the pain, he says he forgives his nephew for the âdevastatingâ attack, and had been to see him in hospital.
âItâs just a tragic, terrible, horrific event,â he said. âI love my nephew, but he took my brotherâs life.
âIâve forgiven him, but itâs such a turmoil of emotions that itâs so hard to comprehend.â
Delvin also pointed to the Nottingham attacks, in which Valdo Calocane â who also has paranoid schizophrenia â killed three people, and said they âmight not have happenedâ had the authorities listened to his family.
âMy heart sank when I heard about the Nottingham attacks, because I just thought âhere we go againâ,â he said.
âThey [Rudi and Calocane] both had mental health conditions, and it wasnât taken as seriously as it could have been.â

A domestic homicide review into Brentonâs death began on 9 January 2023, and will cover contact with Rudi and the family from August 2019 until the death.
The panel conducting the review is set to complete its work this year, and a âsummary of learningâ is due to be published after the document has been reviewed by the Home Office.
Delvin hopes it will bring about the changes needed to stop similar incidents happening again.
âWe donât want Brentâs passing to be in vain,â he said. âThis is something that could happen to any family.
âEven since this attack, quite a few people have come to see me and spoken about their own circumstances, which are very similar.
âThis is not a one-off, this is something that could happen with anybody, and itâs something that is still happening.â
Nottinghamshire Police said it would not comment while the homicide review was still taking place.
Nottinghamshire Healthcare NHS Foundation Trust, which was heavily criticised following a major review into the care it gave Valdo Calocane, said âany loss of life in such circumstances is an absolute tragedyâ.
Chief executive Ifti Majid added: âOn behalf of the trust I again offer my sincerest condolences to Brentonâs family and friends.
âWe are unable to comment further whilst the domestic homicide review is taking place.â
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