Gormley has āno fear of dyingā after terminal cancer diagnosis
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Former Tyrone gaelic footballer Jody Gormley says he has āno fear of dying whatsoeverā after revealing he has been diagnosed with terminal liver cancer.
Gormley was a prominent player for the Red Hands during the 1990s, helping the county win the Ulster Championship in 1995 and reach the All-Ireland final later that year.
The 53-year-old, who says doctors told him in mid-September that he has only months left to live, was managing his club Trillick as recently as last week in the Tyrone Senior Football Championship final, after which he told his players the news as they gathered in the dressing room after defeat by Errigal Ciaran.
āI have no fear of dying. No fear of dying whatsoever. Iāve felt blessed my entire life,ā Gormley said on The GAA Social.
āThe sadness is the people youāre leaving behind. That Iāll not get to see my son, heās training hard with Trillick, heās come back after a couple of years, that Iāll not get to see him play and Iāll not get to see my family grow up and mature.
āThatās not scary but sad really. Thatās the reality. When you peel it all back, itās the people close to you that youāre not going to have those experiences with. That is the genuine sadness, thereās no being tough around that, thatās the reality.ā
Gormley, who led Trillick to the 2023 Tyrone title, suffered a stroke in July while training in the gym with his son James during a family holiday in Florida.
While he says it felt like he made a swift and full recovery, he was back in hospital in September and was diagnosed with stage four liver cancer.
Earlier this week, Gormley had a gathering in a Belfast pub where he said he was touched by the love and respect he felt from his family and friends.
He also said he feels āfortunateā to have the opportunity to say goodbye to those closest to him.
āI think itās important, for me anyway, to show that even if youāre facing the ultimate challenge that you can be resilient,ā added Gormley.
āItās important for my family to show strength of character and the people around me. Itās an opportunity for me to show that yeah just because you have a terminal illness doesnāt mean your life is over. I intend to go out with a bang, Iām not going to lie down in the corner.
āPeople need different role models and I suppose in my role in my life as a teacher and a coach, Iāve had that role. This an opportunity to show that you can keep on going and if somebody finds something of use in it itās worthwhile.ā
Gormley had a long and successful inter-county career and was a steady presence in the Tyrone midfield during their run to the 1995 All-Ireland final, which they lost to Dublin.
In that decider, Gormley was the only Tyrone player other than Peter Canavan to score.
He has also had playing or coaching spells with Down, London, Antrim and Bredagh and believes that a life-long dedication to sport has given him the strength and resilience heās needed recently.
āItās probably tougher on the family than me,ā he said.
āIād say Iām fairly hard-nosed about stuff. When youāre involved in sport, I think you do develop that resilience over years of training and the different setbacks you meet in sport.ā
Gormley added that he would like to be remembered as a ādecent person who helped people out as much as I couldā.
ā[Who] tried to find areas to help people improve, to improve their life and give them a wee nudge in the right direction,ā he continued.
āAnd, obviously, a Trillick man.ā
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